Being a leader is like being a teacher and teaching is an art and a science, the art is the ability to articulate the science of knowledge in which that person encapsulates. They say that great leaders are born but I don’t necessary think that is true. I think everyone has the ability to lead but only a select few allow themselves the ability to tap into that side of their personalities and allow it to take shape through education and professional experiences.
In the video you see many different leaders from different walks of life and experiences but what you don’t see is who they were before, they are just like you and I, they have interesting stories, and many didn’t aspire to be a great leader. But they do all share many of the same foundations and of those foundational similarities; one is one I believe to be the biggest helping hand in becoming a successful leader…
I have met many leaders in my short life and some were amazing and others, well let’s just say I don’t know how they got to the top. I often hear about the hoops people have to jump through to get where they are but maybe some of those hoops are relative to what the person (the leader) wants people to hear and maybe getting to the top wasn’t the best idea for them but they went there anyways and each day are trying too hard to maintain their momentum; maybe they are not designed to be a leader.
I worked for a person who thought and to this day still believes they are a successful leader but they are not. Even though this person isn’t a leader in my book, they are not far from being one; they are only missing one thing,
compassion. Often time’s people get caught up in the hype of being a leader and they forget everything they have learned about people and communicating and one the common areas with people and communicating is compassion. The only problem with this person not having this trait, compassion, it cannot be taught in a classroom or seminar, you cannot read on how to be compassionate, instead it must come from within. I know speaking from experience that as we move up the corporate ladder we change and evolve but I have always made it a point to take the time and remember who I am as a person and why I got to the position I am in and it is not just because I am educated and hardworking but it is also because I can relate and understand people (those above, below, and on the lateral scale as me). I have found that this person never
There is no list of characteristics a person
must have to be a leader but there is that one element they should always have, and that is compassion and they should execute this on a daily basis. Leaders should always take others into consideration and know their story, understand who you are working with, and how they ultimately keep you in the position you are in. If you don’t know those who work for you, how can you serve them?
I am pretty sure I have deviated from the originally prompt for this blog entry but I think it’s because after watching that video I realized that all those people in the Apple commercial had a common dominator and that’s compassion; they knew what it took to be where they are and that meant relating to those who helped them reach their full potential and goals. These people didn’t know what type of system wide changes they would make on the world but they knew they loved what they did and they cared for others.